BlkDaddy,

I live in a relatively small town in a remote rural region. During recent years, I've noticed increasing numbers of white woman / black man couples out-and-about in public. Whether those women are "black owned," however, is not apparent. Mostly, they just look like.... well.... couples.

—Custer

BlkDaddy,

I live in a major metropolitan area were interracial relationships are generally common to see. I also travel at time to other metropolitan areas were the same can be seen. While these couples may or may not have the dynamic that you have described I do know some women in my geographical area where it is indeed the case. With them, they are only interested in seeing much more dominate black men with the preference to eventually become “owned” by one. One is a married couple, she is BBC exclusive when it comes to penetration, and yes the husband is cut off. The other one is recently divorced and now only sees dominate black men and her long term goal is to become owned.

I would agree with you that there are a growing number of white males thinking about their wives or girlfriends becoming black owned and serving black men right in front of them. My wife does know that I would have no issues with her selecting a black man if she felt the attraction and believed that a connection would develop.

My wife was never what could be described as "black owned", even tho a well-hung black man lived with us and shared her and the household bills like a 2nd husband for her for almost 3 years. She told me that she also loved him every bit as much as she loved me and had a very difficult time when his job took his to Oregon -clear across the country. They often "dated" without me and we usually went on vacations together. Sometimes she would be holding hands with him, other times with me and sometimes with both of us-boy, did we get stared at when she would do that. She was clearly stating "Yes, I have 2 lovers and we're all OK with it!" Neither one of us would ever say that she was "black owned", but she did enjoy many black cocks over the years. GTR

Well first of all, I want to state... the term Black owned, is completely subjective. It doesn't have one definition by any means. It means a great deal of different things to different women involved in the lifestyle... as well as the men... Bull and cuck alike!

For many... being Black Owned means you have a certain loyalty and some mutually agreed upon degree of obligation to one or more Black bulls, involving a range of topics from personally pleasurable sexual activity to desiring to become pregnant and birthing mixed children by and with, one or more, select Black bulls. For me personally... I view the dynamic and philosophy of being Black Owned as a freedom of choice issue for any female. It is about her freely choosing to be "Black Owned" in whatever manner "She" desires...not her Bull or Bulls, not her husband, cucked or otherwise! It's totally and completely about the female's choice. The degree of activities agreed to in such arrangements are endless, and those are best designed and selected according to the female's choice and desire when the rules and guidelines of the particular "Black Ownership"is being negotiated in the beginning. Amendments and updates can always be added and considered later... so you don't have to have all things laid out perfectly in the beginning... just the basics! My personal use of "BlackOwnership" for myself has a number of wide variations. There is no one way being "Black Owned" works. What works for you may not work for someone else... the main thing is the mental aspect of being "Black Owned"... as long as it stimulates you intellectually and sexually in a highly positive and rewarding manner... then being "BlackOwned" might be something you ladies should look into! (((((hugs))))) ;)

It's always a pleasure to have your thoughts on a subject and you are absolutely correct, there are different variations on the subject of being "Black Owned" which you have lived and embraced throughout your life. When people hear the words "Black Owned" they think it's about one black man having control of the female, that's only one aspect of it. As you said being "Black Owned" can be where a female has more than one black lover but it's a choice of her being black only for her pleasure.

Yes, it's the act of a free "choice" that legitimizes the whole aspect of being "Black Owned" ...if I choose to have one or many Black men "Own" me... that's "my" personal choice, made freely by "me" to fully exercise my freedom to seek the best sexual and personal pleasures I can, in the manner I select! If you're a female like me, and you wish to have a wide variety of Black men "Own" you in whatever manner that pleases you, or if you only wish to have one special Black man "own" you... the choice is 100% completely yours and yours alone. No Bull, no husband, no boyfriend, selects for you... even if you're a sexually submissive female with your lovers, you're still the one in charge of you, and you... choose to make the ultimate decision... you desire to be "Black-Owned"... you and only you make that choice!! ;)