posting this here too
Hi. So I am facing a new unexpected dilemma. My mother recently split with my step father. They were married 15 years. We’ve Always been close and I’ve been talking her through a lot of her emotions through the breakup. One of their issues was apparently their sex life was fairl dead for many years. My mom confessed she approached him about sleeping with other people and he reacted badly. We talked a lot about it and I ended up telling her about my situation with my wife. Yeah. She was very shocked, but started asking a lot of questions. Anyway we have been talking a lot about my experiences and she has told me it’s something she had always wanted to try.
I was genuinely happy for her and offered to be completely open and answer any questions she had.
Over the past couple weeks, something suddenly shifted I think. I think I am starting to pick up vibes that her sexual curiosity may actually be starting to connect and associate with me a little. In other words I think I am picking up a slight sexual desire for me from her! I dismissed it at first, but after talking to my mother with my wife present the last couple times to share her perspective on our lifestyle, my wife is convinced my mother is sexually attracted to me.
Is this possible? What should I do?
Thanks for any thoughts.